Tuesday, May 19, 2015

New Halachic ruling: Married men should wear a wedding ring!

Rabbi David Stav
Rabbi David Stav, the Chief Rabbi of Shoham, Chairman of the Tzohar Rabbinic Council in Israel and a graduate of YBA Kfar Haroeh, recently published a new Halachic ruling that mandates married men who study or work in mixed company with women to wear a wedding ring.

In Rabbi Stav's ruling, which appears in the 35th annual edition of the Tzomet Institute's Techumin journal of contemporary Halacha, he writes: "In certain communities there is no interest in adopting the tradition of men wearing wedding rings because it is regarded as unnecessary. However, among those married men who work or study in settings where men and women mix, it is fitting and proper for men to adopt the tradition of wearing a wedding ring, to be a reminder to them and to all those around them of their commitment to their wives, and to prevent misunderstandings or embarrassing situations."

Rabbi Stav adds that if a wife requests that her husband wear a ring, it is certainly appropriate that he should agree to her request willingly and happily.

Rabbi Stav quotes Rabbi Meir Mazuz as a source for his ruling. who surmised that the tradition of men wearing wedding rings has a rational purpose, "as an inscription on your heart and on your arm, so as not to turn your attention to another woman." Rabbi Stav also asserted that his own father gave him a wedding ring to wear on his wedding day.

This is an example of the creative and ground-breaking Halachic rulings that Rabbi Stav has earned his reputation upon over the years. A year ago, he was nominated for the position of Chief Rabbi of Israel, but lost the appointment to Rabbi David Lau, who was considered more acceptable to the Haredi members of the selection committee. Rabbi Stav was recently chosen by Rabbi Shlomo Riskin as his successor to the position of Chancellor of Ohr Torah Educational Institutions in Israel.

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